Re: kismat
Amen with the no dating debarcle. Don't marry either, sounds like a life time of headaches to me.
I am serious about this eternal abstinance thingie.
Re: kismat
Its not a desi thing. There are rules for engagment (for all relations). There are ways for girls to approach a guy - yet she shouldn’t pursue him per say. She has to manipulate the way that the guy puts his first foot out - not her. Sounds bad but these rules have been in place for centuries - we will not be able to change them in our lifetimes. Its upto you if you want to be revolutionary and try different things or learn the rules and use them to your advantage.
Learn the rules first before you break 'em!
Re: kismat
Well i never felt the need to learn any “rules” coz I wasn’t intent on dating or anything. And you know what I still don’t plan on dating or doing anything where i have to learn the “rules.” I’m not that chalaaK to be that manipulative or cunning 
Re: kismat
She has to manipulate the way that the guy puts his first foot out - not her
how the hell do you do this? Loading on lots of make-up on your face? Being something that you are not?
Girls make such asses of themselves.
Re: kismat
^ Mind games 
IF ur straightforward and assertive, ur pathetic or desparate, if u do the manipulation game, u end up looking like an ass 
Re: kismat
no PCG, I don't think that's what he meant. I've heard this a lot myself from other people, that you have to make the guy feel like he's the one making all the moves. At the end of the day, most guys don't like being pursued and like to be the ones in control and making all the moves. I'm guessing you can manipulate a person by dropping hints that you are interested and then leave it up to him to make a move.
Re: kismat
the OP is busy wid exams, things wud be clarified wid detail in a few days