Re: kismat
Yes. Date before marriage. Hell, cohabit before marriage for all I care. And yes I personally won't mind 'marrying' a girl who has been 'around the block', so to speak. By the way, what was your point with regard to that post? Or does your mind automatically likes to jump to racy thoughts...
That is very nice and open-minded of you. Have u actually practiced what you preached? And furthermore, if you do happen to be an open-minded guy (which is rare) - do you think your family would have a problem with such a girl? Furthermore, do you think most guys out there are daring enough to say "okay, so she's not a virgin, I still will marry her", and who are gutsy enough to follow up with it?
*Are you on crack or something? Do you actually believe that HUMANS don't, as a rule, talk about their significant others with their friends? (unless you mean talking about stuff in bed and other private things, which is rather anal, I agree) *
Again, you'll have to ask the OP as to what was said. If he's talking about personal things like her body or sexual experiences - good we're on the same boat regarding that. If he wants to talk, fine. But don't lie to a girl and tell her that you wont say anything, and then actually go say it. Like I said - it differs between couple to couple - and it depends on the couple as to what is supposed to be secretive and what is not. Many guys I've seen just violate that. Most girls dont want the public to know they're dating, because then they are afraid they wont get good rishtaas. And guys will violate this all the time, by simply saying they are dating so and so.
oh and I don't give a ** about you personally. We were discussing opinions.**
Okay, then don't proceed to give me personal advice. :)