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If it’s new or old, before he was married or after, by him or by a friend… What does it matter?
If it’s not affecting you directly, why get involved in other people’s business? ![]()
Re: Kind of shocked!!
If it’s new or old, before he was married or after, by him or by a friend… What does it matter?
If it’s not affecting you directly, why get involved in other people’s business? ![]()
Re: Kind of shocked!!
^**IF **he really was hitting on her it does affect her and she is involved..
Generally speakig, if a married guy tries it on with me by keeping quiet am I not enabling him to carry on conning other innocent girls and lying to his wife? On a matrimonial site it's even more serious.. imagine if a girl has a nikah with him, wouldn't her life be ruined? (And yeah, it does happen.. it's one of the main reasons the larger UK mosques will refuse to do a nikah without civil marriage as well)..
I would love to know how many of those who always say 'just keep out of it' would feel if they were on the receiving end of this..
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^**IF **he really was hitting on her it does affect her and she is involved..
Generally speakig, if a married guy tries it on with me by keeping quiet am I not enabling him to carry on conning other innocent girls and lying to his wife? On a matrimonial site it's even more serious.. imagine if a girl has a nikah with him, wouldn't her life be ruined? (And yeah, it does happen.. it's one of the main reasons the larger UK mosques will refuse to do a nikah without civil marriage as well)..
I would love to know how many of those who always say 'just keep out of it' would feel if they were on the receiving end of this..
Exactly!
I know it's none of my business & neither i was going to take a step like informing his wife especially, because i don't really have to, & what he is doing, that's definitely between him & Allah. And even if i had taken any such step while considering her, it would most probably backfire against me as his wife wouldn't believe me... anyways!
Finding out about this had literary shocked me. I was wondering how many married men like him would be there on those matrimonial sites & may just be fooling around.
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^ you shouldn’t wonder too much about married men…you could like get a stroke with the shocks you will get :nono:
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Facebook is like women's CIA head quarters. You guys spy so much on people. I was so extremely shocked that once a female collegue of mine had gotten so much dirt on a guy that she was stalking that she even found out the amout of mortage he had on his house! The amount of stuff google puts out and now the advent of facebook its crazy out there. That's why i don't have any info on my fb or any info about me personally online. Scary what people can find out about you.
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Cant be an inactive profile, could it?
or a stolen pic and a fake profile on that matrimonial site.
Preach!!
Notice how the divorce rate went up since FB’s been around? Coincidence? I think not!
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