Ok so, after being suggested by my few friends, i thought to try my luck by registering on a matrimonial site, though i don’t have much faith in those matrimonial sites.
So, after registration, today, when i was just going through interests i had received, to my utmost surprise, when i opened one of the interests, i was shocked to see the picture & then the name of the person. To my utmost surprise, he was a brother of someone i know and that girl is added on my facebook list too, and so she had posted many photos on her profile of her brother’s wedding by creating albums there, & by tagging him there, so, it is the same brother who i had found on that matrimonial site again. And i was wondering what he was doing there when he is already married. In his profile, he had clearly mentioned that, ‘‘truthfully saying i am not going to go for the marriage straight away ill need to know the female first and then go ahead. i know parents would be against this!! soo id say parents im sorry but this is what i would like.’’ which says it all that he is just looking for some fun there. Ok, fine, he is looking for fun/time-pass there, but what i don’t understand is that, being married, why would a man have to do this!? He is turning unfaithful to his wife, right? And moreover, even if he may end up finding girls there, he would be fooling them too! Seeing such cheap act from a married man, my blood got so boiled up that i felt like, posting the link of his matrimonial profile to his wife , whom too i had seen on facebook . Shall i do that? :p. So shall i inform his sister? Or shall i just forget about it & do nothing as it is none of my business? What would you do if you were in place of me?
And iam glad i came across this! Now iam sure not to trust anyone there!
In any case. I cant see why it has to be anyone's business to interfere in two peoples lives and attempt to wreck or sabotage a marriage that is presumably heading in the right direction by all the other means available. More so, I don't think a rift needs to come from an apparent random female stranger who suddenly popped up on a website, witnessed someones husband doing something shady today and chose to scribble down a heart wrenching letter to his wife the next. Definitely not how its done.
I'd rather confront and attempt to set the guy straight first than to take the case up to his wife. But if I cant, I'd rather keep me to myself and move on doing what I was out there to do from the get go.
I read your post thoroughly & I understand your feeling but something I noticed is, your thoughts have a negative approach. I don’t say, you are absolutely wrong but you need to take things positive too, the way I am seeing this man’s profile.
There can be several reasons for this, out of which I cameup with one and feel to share it.
First of all, it maybe a reason that the first marriage he did, was an arranged one by his parents and who knows he always wanted to have a love marriage. Some people can adjust with that situation while others cant accept the reality, he can be the one who couldn’t accept the reality and now maybe he is looking for the second marriage of his own choice.
So you don’t need to worry for that, it happens, and even if he mentioned in his profile that he is still single it maybe because people here think that if the reader reads the Marital Status like married, seperated, divorcee, with kids, he/she will automatically turn uninterested without knowing the right person, so sometimes they hide it.
NO- informing any of his family member and especially his wife, is the worst and most ridiculous act I can expect from you or whats your age?? This would be the childish act. Unless his wife was not your own sister, cousin, bestestest friend.. I would never recommend you to do that. You have nothing to do with them, just leave them alone. Don’t interfere their privacy when you know nothing about them & their relationship.
which says it all that he is just looking for some fun there. Ok, fine, he is looking for fun/time-pass there, but what i don’t understand is that, being married, why would a man have to do this!? He is turning unfaithful to his wife, right? And moreover, even if he may end up finding girls there, he would be fooling them too! Seeing such cheap act from a married man, my blood got so boiled up that i felt like, posting the link of his matrimonial profile to his wife 
, whom too i had seen on facebook . Shall i do that? :p. So shall i inform his sister? Or shall i just forget about it & do nothing as it is none of my business? What would you do if you were in place of me?
‘qurbaanii kaa bakraa banne meN’ merii baarii to end meN aayegii na! 
