Tlk my nephew was like that as stil Is at 14 even if he is home alone he'd have the light on in every single room.
She's obviously scared of something we get him to recite the kalma and 4 kuls.
We've asked him severAl times y even taken him to see a specialist, it's his over active imisgination that does it.
Try to tell ur daughters a story jus before she goes to bed, s nice friendly one and no tv a hour o so before bed, get them to read the kalma jus before they close there eyes, and sAy Allah will protect u thru the night, it works with my 8yr old n 4/5yr old. N
Kalima and Quls dont work for her no more :D
Govt of Pakistan is running special training program to for all kids to remove their fear related to darkness, some critics calls it load-shedding/power-cuts, have her in Pakistan for sometime and she will be all use to Dark and may also enjoy it...
hahaha, that is an awesome suggestion ..:D
even I'm afraid of dark.
lol
Maybe have a radio on in her room.
Also one thing I did which worked well for my son when he had a bad dream: I had him draw a picture of the dream, and tell me what happened in it, then we threw the picture in the fire. All gone!
Asking her to draw the picture seems to be a great idea.
Tlk my nephew was like that as stil Is at 14 even if he is home alone he'd have the light on in every single room.
She's obviously scared of something we get him to recite the kalma and 4 kuls.
We've asked him severAl times y even taken him to see a specialist, it's his over active imisgination that does it.
Try to tell ur daughters a story jus before she goes to bed, s nice friendly one and no tv a hour o so before bed, get them to read the kalma jus before they close there eyes, and sAy Allah will protect u thru the night, it works with my 8yr old n 4/5yr old. N
Kalima and Quls dont work for her no more :D
Keep with it, does she still read them
Before she sleeps and also have u taken her to see neone about her aleeping pattern
My 9yo boy is the same specially at night he always calls his 6 years old sister to go with her in the basement if he has to get something. He send her in first to turn on the light :)
We talked to their doctor but she said this is not unusual and he should be fine as time go by. Dr has asked us to encourage our son and equip him with the sense of security but dont push him too much. One thing that has helped is recitation of sorah. We has asked him to recite Ayat-al-kursi and this gives him great sense of security.
im 22 and I have never gotten over being afraid of the dark :(. If it's pitch dark, I think someone is standing next to my bed to kill me :(. So I have two nightlights. And my door has to be closed. My theory is, if someone is gonna kill me at least I'll have 2 seconds to prepare by hearing the door open. omg i have problems.
My 9yo boy is the same specially at night he always calls his 6 years old sister to go with her in the basement if he has to get something. He send her in first to turn on the light :)
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I was afraid of the dark until 8-9 years old and now I find dark very soothing and peaceful.
I know it can be annoying but give it time, they will get over it.
ok these two testimonies are very comforting to hear. Thanks guys.