Khatar Patar in the kitchen for what?

[diwana]

Re: Khatar Patar in the kitchen for what?

@Sasha21

If ur staying up late talking then maybe the wife feels its normal to eat breakfast by 11? She has to sleep too right? If ur stayin in ur room for 3 hours listening to th khattar pattar then u should wake up early and go see what shes actually doing… Out of curiousity. Maybe she wakes up to send her kids to school and is making their breakfast/lunch or making hubby’s lunch for work, emptying dishwasher always creates unavoidable khattar patter too. If u come out of ur room only when ur cousin says its time for breakfast then they may not be aware that u want it earlier, it might be late for them and this is the latest that they can hold off breakfast till and then they call u.

In my moms house when we had guests (who didn’t have specific wake up times) she would just make breakfast as and when they got up. She’d ask them K Mae breakfast bana doon and aap kya khaain gay. They would say yes this that… Or no Im going to shower first… Or no I’m skipping breakfast because I have to go do xyz. We weren’t adamant that everyone sit together and the table and have breakfast zabardasti at the same time, cuz it might be inconvinient for them or us. Lunch and dinner too, if everyone’s at home at a meal time then we ate together but if they were out we would eat whenever we want to eat and serve them lunch/dinner when thy got home.. If they hadnt already eaten. We wouldn’t keep them bound to having a meal at home if it’s not convinient or they don’t wish to. I hate it when ppl keep dancing around meal times like that’s the be all end all, just do what works and eat when u want to eat. Ur still spending time with guests so what if u didn’t all sit together at the table at the same time and eat, it’s not the end of the world. It’s so inconvinient when u have something to do or ur still out and there are ppl waiting at home k hum Aapkay saath he khana khaain gay and aap kit at bajay aa rahay Haen hum Aapka wait kar rahay Haen. I actually feel more at ease if they didn’t wait for me and just started eating so I dont feel stupid that the whole house is hungry cuz I can’t get to home on time (when I’m the guest.. Not the host)

If u have stuff to do and have to wake up early and leave for whatever plans u have then u can have breakfast on the go. I mean she’s not making Parathay or something, omellette and toast to ihop and McDonald’s pay bhi mil jaata hae. And I don’t think they’ll feel bad about u missin breakfast if u had to go do something and didn’t think it was expected from them to wake up even earlier to make breakfast for u.

Uff! Itni Lambi Kahani Bana Di.

No one stays in room certainly not me since I can’t stay in bed past certain time no matter how late I had slept. While her husband and I are talking in the morning or watching TV/News, the khatar Patar goes on.

Even her husband sometimes says, what are you making begum?

And I feel like asking " Chai Ban Rahi Hai Ya Paaye?"

Anyways, I understand those points myself and no big disagreement there.

I just wanted to make a point that even though some women have been cooking almost all their adult lives, then why be sooooo slow in the kitchen?