Do you believe in karma? what goes around comes around?
I deeply believe that you should treat your wife/Girlfriend, With respect, Because men forget that one day they will have a daughter/niece/and they *might *have a sister. or a girl cousin they class as one.
For example, Back in the day when my boyfriend’s brother got married to his girlfriend, she used to text my boyfriend *all the time. *99% Of the time it was absoloute crap.
Like -: What car shall i get? What phone shall i get? Do you wanna go shopping with me? ETC! … The last thing did it for me… ‘‘can you get my baby some nappies?’’
(Before you all attack me for that last one, Her husband was AT home, Being a lazy pig that he is!!)
So i made a thread ages ago saying that my potential BIL swore at me for texting him asking him where his brother was. I mean he is such a thick moron words cant describe it… His girlfriend basically ran away from home to marry him… Hell her parents didnt even come to the wedding, Yet IM the kanjari?!
And i have no morals or respect.
I would never ever ever do that to my parents. He obviously has a deep complex.
Now back to the main topic… So yesterday i was going thru facebook and found my boyfriend’s niece… She has over 300 guys on her facebook and shes 14 years old. I told my boyfriend he said yeah they are her friends… which i replied Im sorry which 14 year old has 20+year olds as *friends? * He then replied back saying, Dont talk about my family.
It then hit me … Its karma, His brother had the cheek to swear at me and try to give me a bad name, when his OWN neice is talking to loads of guys.
Anyway he has a daughter and one on the way very soon… I in no way wish them any harm or anything, But men should learn not to run their mouths about other girls that they have no idea about.. Because you never know when karma wil hit you in the arse!!!
I think i remember the thread you referred to. Your BIL badmouthed you and refused to apologize. You were inquiring what your BF's stance should be. Something like that.
Karma is true but we can never be in a position to identify or isolate it. We do bad and we get away, we do good and we are punished. Imam Hussain and his family didnt nothing wrong to deserve that massacre. This is all but a test. Again, You would see a fellow prosperous in his life, ending up in havoc, ruined to ashes. You would call it the bane of his life, but he may have actually 'earned' it. The thing is, there is a fraction that we see, and there is a world that we dont see. Who stands where in the eyes of Almighty, we never know. SO karma exists, but beyond our thinking.
As for this man, he stooped too low to have disrespected and abused you like that. More then karma, its bad bringing up of a runaway woman and his supporter.
^ you are saying that you don't believe in justice of Allah ?
How can you even compare these two?
The concept of Karma is not the same as the juctice of Allah. So all the bloodsucking billionares who benefit from the misery of others and get richer and richer and nothing "bad" happens to them in this lifetime will get justice in the next life, the afterlife. That's the justice of Allah.
How do you juctify the suffering of little children? Do they deserve it because of Karma? What about the raping and killing of little innocent children? What wrong have they done? According to Karma they deserve it because of certain things they have done in their previous life. That's Karma. LOL
So once again, why are you using the justice of Allah as a synonym for Karma?
Karma is man-made, I don't believe in it. It's just a way to make ourselves feel like the world is fair, but nothing is fair in this world.
And justice can come in many different forms, justice can be something positive in your life as opposed to something bad happening to...like...someone who hurts you
barbie. physicas doesnt really bother itself with humanoid bakwas. I think you'll have to delve into the social sciences for that.
So far as karma is concerned, i agree with aisha.
But I do think you should think about whether you want to be involved with a family like the aforementioned - cause if something goes wrong for you in the future, that wont be karma, that will be you - laying in a bed you made.
The concept of Karma is not the same as the juctice of Allah. So all the bloodsucking billionares who benefit from the misery of others and get richer and richer and nothing "bad" happens to them in this lifetime will get justice in the next life, the afterlife. That's the justice of Allah.
How do you juctify the suffering of little children? Do they deserve it because of Karma? What about the raping and killing of little innocent children? What wrong have they done? According to Karma they deserve it because of certain things they have done in their previous life. That's Karma. LOL
So once again, why are you using the justice of Allah as a synonym for Karma?
I didn't know the definition of karma !
I didn't use karma as a synonym of Allah's justice but yea for "what goes around comes around " I did use it as a synonym.
Jalpari has put it in the best way and that shall answer your 2nd last para.
*I do belive in the concept of if you do something wrong, you pay for it, or if you call someone a name, you're basically hurting yourself. But idk if that's karma or not. *
