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yes its not easy...but providing just for immediate family is doable.
Not for all in Pakistan. High inflation and expensive education make it difficult
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iske liye ya tou baap dada ka jaidaad khoob hogi ya phir ghar walon k zaroortain minimum.
PS:by "kunba" im assuming it refers to not just one's immediate family
LP Mai orat ke job karne ke khilaf hoo agar like usko household bhi Dekhna hai aur bache bhi palne hain sath sath,
Mard jab kam se ata hai to usko garam garam khana chahiye houta hai,
Orat jab aati hai to atay hi ghar ke kaamo Mao lag jati hai,
Kuch aesi families bhi hain jahan ghar ka kaam aur bache noukar paltay hain, I hate this system, orat ka pehla farz bacho Ki tarbiyat Karna hai, nokro ke hatho Mai aksar bache bighar jatay hain, where parents are too busy to making money.
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Log hotels mein zaroor bethay hotay time zaya kartay lag rahay hotay hain hamein, but as far as my observation is those are mostly daily wagers and truck drivers...wo kaam kartay hain, but ye unki refreshment ka zarya hai, Truck driver long route par truck chalatay howay, sastany kay liyay zaroor beth'tay hain, phir aik adhi movie dekh kar hi uth'tay hain....but ye log bhi kaam kartay hain
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Not for all in Pakistan. High inflation and expensive education make it difficult
In saudi many men are the sole breadwinners of the family (including every family in my own khandan)
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its not with just bari aurtain... there are few families who send thier lil girls in far areas to work....
so they cam send back thier parents some money
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As muqa said..depends on the need... zaroorat ke waqt one has to compromise on a lot o things.Moreover I do know working ladies who dont have maids/servants etc and take care of kids and hubbies too.They just make sure they take up a job wherein they are home before hubby and kids get home :)
LP Mai orat ke job karne ke khilaf hoo agar like usko household bhi Dekhna hai aur bache bhi palne hain sath sath, Mard jab kam se ata hai to usko garam garam khana chahiye houta hai,
Orat jab aati hai to atay hi ghar ke kaamo Mao lag jati hai,
Kuch aesi families bhi hain jahan ghar ka kaam aur bache noukar paltay hain, I hate this system, orat ka pehla farz bacho Ki tarbiyat Karna hai, nokro ke hatho Mai aksar bache bighar jatay hain, where parents are too busy to making money.
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App hi ka dost hoga koi, aur aap ko pata nai 
As muqa said..depends on the need... zaroorat ke waqt one has to compromise on a lot o things.Moreover I do know working ladies who dont have maids/servants etc and take care of kids and hubbies too.They just make sure they take up a job wherein they are home before hubby and kids get home :) ]
I don't know, but ask your self After coming back from work do you really want to go into kitchen and cook for family? And then tension of next days work.
May be it's just me, could be easy for others.
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As muqa said..depends on the need... zaroorat ke waqt one has to compromise on a lot o things.Moreover I do know working ladies who dont have maids/servants etc and take care of kids and hubbies too.They just make sure they take up a job wherein they are home before hubby and kids get home :)
Kehna asan hai ye.....Phir ap ghar ka kaam kyon nahi karti?
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its not with just bari aurtain... there are few families who send thier lil girls in far areas to work.... so they cam send back thier parents some money
Are you talking about the children sent by parents to foreign countries earning income for them. There was a time when shaiks used to buy children to be used in camel race. They tied children on back of camels and due to loud cries of poor children, the camel run fast. :(
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I don't know, but ask your self After coming back from work do you really want to go into kitchen and cook for family? And then tension of next days work.
May be it's just me, could be easy for others.
working ladies do manage things by cooking stuff for next and freezing it. I think working woman in rural areas is in more trouble than women working in urban areas
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kaun ?
yes,for sometime now..i have been doing that …I cook right before leaving…Serve lunch…have a shower and leave off to work…after coming back …I have to enter kitchen too again on most days…just sometimes i dont have to.
Its definitely not something one cant do.
apse kisne kaha ke mai nahi kerti…
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Are you talking about the children sent by parents to foreign countries earning income for them. There was a time when shaiks used to buy children to be used in camel race. They tied children on back of camels and due to loud cries of poor children, the camel run fast. :(
no,. not in foreign countries... but in other cities.. which is too far.. like in FSD in my relatives.. they had a maid.. she was 12 and came from prshawar... she used to work all day... and live in a room given by my relatives... then at the end of the month someone usef to cum and take all her salary... and my relatives used to buy new clothes and stuff for her.. but her parents used to take that as well :( she worked there for 10 years and my relatives got her married
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working ladies do manage things by cooking stuff for next and freezing it. I think working woman in rural areas is in more trouble than women working in urban areas
yes you are right muqa...ladies do manage...and nothing wrong with it...it all depends on an individuals needs , and the ability to compromise on stuff.Yes she wont have time to spend on star plus or backbitings or socializing too much.
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Log hotels mein zaroor bethay hotay time zaya kartay lag rahay hotay hain hamein, but as far as my observation is those are mostly daily wagers and truck drivers...wo kaam kartay hain, but ye unki refreshment ka zarya hai, Truck driver long route par truck chalatay howay, sastany kay liyay zaroor beth'tay hain, phir aik adhi movie dekh kar hi uth'tay hain....but ye log bhi kaam kartay hain
You are right. Not 100% men sitting in these hotels are parasites.. but as per my observation of rural Sindh, such places are mostly occupied by those whose ladies work to feed them. I've no shame in accepting that Sindhi women are more hardworking than Sindhi men
working ladies do manage things by cooking stuff for next and freezing it. I think working woman in rural areas is in more trouble than women working in urban areas
But working in Pakistan is way Too much hard, traffic problems, every other days strike and what not.
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no,. not in foreign countries... but in other cities.. which is too far.. like in FSD in my relatives.. they had a maid.. she was 12 and came from prshawar... she used to work all day... and live in a room given by my relatives... then at the end of the month someone usef to cum and take all her salary... and my relatives used to buy new clothes and stuff for her.. but her parents used to take that as well :( she worked there for 10 years and my relatives got her married
poor money making machines :(
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But working in Pakistan is way Too much hard, traffic problems, every other days strike and what not.
Everyone have to face all this. There is no gender discrimination in this case :)
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poor money making machines :(
yeah... thats what it all about.. poor lil girls.. and those cute boys works in work shops... :(