Kaam chori Culture

From Sawabi to Sukkur, there is a group of men in Pakistan, who is burden on earth wasting time in hotels, whiles ladies of the house have to go through hardships of life.

A cup of tea or an Indian film? – The Express Tribune

**PESHAWAR:


When the cinemas of Peshawar were burnt to ash during angry protests that broke out against anti-Islam film, Innocence of Muslims, the city lost half its history. Not only were some of the oldest cinemas of Pakistan obliterated, there was effectively no movie theatre left where the average Peshawarite could unwind after a hard day’s work. Fortunately, for the entertainment-starved majority, necessity was the devoted mother of an invention in the form of cinemas at tea stalls. Small tea shops which are also known as story-teller hotels, have transformed into new cinemas or more precisely, entertainment venues.**

While these hotels may have lost their primary purpose of getting friends together to narrate stories of the past, they now see a bustling crowd eager to lock their eyes to the screens.

“These story-teller hotels in Peshawar, like cinemas, are remainders of the city’s history,” says Mohammad Ibrahim Zia, author responsible for writing several books on Peshawar’s history. “The news and views exchanged here include those about traders from Karwan, central Asia and how they would have passed their time [during their journey] in such hotels.”

The venue is primarily occupied with men — ironically a large percentage being those who are actually against the idea of cinemas or any kind of entertainment — sipping Peshawari kahwa while sitting back and enjoying English movies, Indian films, women wrestling along with local entertainment dramas specifically CD dramas, which are famous for their vulgarity. As the aroma of kahwa and cardamom tea fill the air along with the smoke of tobacco, men, who some would call hypocrites, sit back and delve into all forms of sub-standard entertainment.

“Initially, professional raconteurs would entertain people by recalling old stories. And now, although the story-telling tradition is long gone, these small hotels still throb with activity as majority of them have televisions installed as a way of entertaining people,” he continues. Zia believes the government should ensure the protection of the country’s historical sites as it is what makes us who we are — gives us recognition. Unfortunately a number of these old tea shops have been transformed into stores for other business purposes such as garments and electrical supplies.

Akbar Khan, a tea shop owner in Qissa Khwani Bazaar, also spoke to The Express Tribune about the changing tradition and says: “The purpose of large screen televisions is to attract a maximum number of customers — people are fond of watching these movies.” All types of people are present at these venues, specifically those “honourable ones” who consider watching a movie in a cinema a shameful act — they come here and watch all types of programmes and movies.

Apart from being an entertainment venue, these hotels have also become a convenient location for smoking charas or hashish; hotel owners have powerful links with the police thus such practices are not forbidden. “As far as my hotel is concerned, I do not allow smoking,” Khan adds defensively in regard to this issue.

“The hotel owner usually switches off the TV when we are done with our cup of tea,” says Ghulam Ali, a customer of another tea shop, while smoking charas and enjoying an Indian movie. “So we have to purchase another cup in order to continue watching our programme or movie.” These small tea shops have two or more TV sets with different programmes being played simultaneoulsy in order to cater to everyone’s needs.

Kaam chori Culture

Really? :eek: they don’t work at all? And their wifes are working hard like this? :eek:

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You didn’t observe this. kabhi apni kaam wali Maasi se uss ke dukhRe sunena.

Kaam chori Culture

Oh yes !!! Bechari told me her story :bummer:
And I tried to explain her but she said * rehne den baaji Hume unke sath aesy hi guzara Karna hai ab * :frowning:

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The ladies in these areas are taken for granted like bonded labor.

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Ok this is may be lower class, but many husbands in upper class or Middle class also push their wifes to work to have a better life style.

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When its need of the time, like paying expensive fees of children, then its ok that both partners work. wo zamana gaya jab ek kamata tha aur pura kunba beth ke khata tha. Here the case is different. Men are wasting time in hotels and ladies have to work in fields, in others homes and then take care of 10-10 bache of these nikhattoo men :aj:

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so sad... may Allah pak help them... Ameen

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ameen

so there r ppl lazier than me :hmmm:

Yeh zamana aaj bhi hai.

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LP if it was allowed for ladies in Saudi Arab to go sit in restaurants and kill their time watching movies over a cup of tea, would you do that?

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If anyone follows this, then they have to go through very tough time

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1- I find it hard to sit thru a complete movie without falling asleep.
2- I don’t drink tea.
3- Once in a while getting together with frnds and watching a movie is a good refreshment when one’s tired of routine work and stress.(i did that once in my lifetime though :bummer: )

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yes i know one

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iske liye ya tou baap dada ka jaidaad khoob hogi ya phir ghar walon k zaroortain minimum.

PS:by "kunba" im assuming it refers to not just one's immediate family

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who may that be ?

So you mean women 'must' work?

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Yes Kunba is not just immediate family, but its not easy for a single person to provide better standard life to children and immediate family from one source of income

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yes its not easy...but providing just for immediate family is doable.

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If need arises. I personally think a man should not restrict a woman to pursue her career, if family life is not disturbed