Justifying a Cheat

Lifestyle Relationships
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Figure of speech

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Agree totally.

I hate it when people make excuses for not being responsible. Husband or wife. Marriage is 100% from each partner not 50-50.

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yeah there should be no cheating. :nono:
muttah is a diff story though

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What is muttah?:frowning:

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Well im unhappy by what i see in ur pics yet i think that to each his own. to me, a woman who cheats on her hubby to sleep around or w/e she does is no different than a muslim woman who displays her cleavage and pics in revealing outfits to the entire gupshup. a woman like u shudnt be forgiven either n im sure alot of ppl here feel that way too. do u see us makin a topic abt ur dressing sense. n pls dont try to justify it by sayin that ur independent or modern or somethin lame like that. i dont see any reason why u shud be pickin at mirage the way u did by making this topic.

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loophole

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Muttah is short term contractual marriage (for mainly sexual needs) between man and a woman.

Its practiced widely by Shias only...

Basically, a man can get into contract marriage *with a woman for few hours, few weeks/months and have sex with the that lady and then terminate the contractual *marriage depending on the time limit in the contract. It is basically back doored prostitution as far as I am concerned.

It falls under some form of cheating.

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Weird...

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:rotfl: @ revealing outfits.

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@X2 its not a lophole, its having a GF on predefined terms.
Making every thing clear up front . Taking responsibility of woman and her kids.
lol first i read it with out an "a"

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I donot agree with Muttah either, Its like saying, ‘He God guess what I have figured out a way of finding a way around your rules’ :vivo:

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They donot take responsibility. Who told you that.

They find young girls, give the family some money.

Its agreed on both sides that the girl is only being wed for sexual pleasure and will be returned after the man is done with her with a divorce.

IMO all 3 parties are guilty, the Man, the parents of the girl and the girl herself.

But that isnt cheating, nobody is committing to anything, like you said its predefined.

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:k:
Anybody who does this (the man or the woman) will get their punishment in the afterlife, if not in this life. Women who go after married men, they are absolutely despicable. no better than pigs all of em.

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Muttah is cheating on your wife if you look at it from moral and family values perspective.

Does the man tell his wife? No.

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All this is terrible! Just plain bad.:(

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We use fire to cook every day, but if you give match to a monkey he is going to set a whole forest on fire.
I don't see any thing wrong with mutha. But Agian people could misuse any given facility.
I see muttah as a dignified gf/bf relation. Where you be a man and take responsibility of every thing you do.

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Yeah, it is bad. But those who preach it, would love to disagree with you only until you ask them if they would allow women in their family to perform muttah or contractual marriages for few hours or weeks. Then, they jump up and say no, that wouldn't be so nice.

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There is far more worse than all this.
You just arent aware of it all

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Agree!

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I honestly dont see your comparison of a man and a monkey.

Humans can differ from right and wrong, we have been given that gift.

If a person wants to look after a widow and her kids then it could be done by giving charity, not for exchange for sex.