Justifying a Cheat

Im not happy with something I read, infact Im completely and utterly annoyed by anyone justifying unfaithfulness with excuses and reasons.

A woman forced into marriage, doesnt have the balls to stand up and say no, but hey she has the guts to cheat on her husband. She cannot say No to that.

Or excuses like, he wasnt paying me full attention and any of that rubbish.
Bibi if you are that unhappy why dont you freaking leave him, why stay stuck on him like a leech.

I despise such women from the depths of my heart and wish that they’d be stoned to death cause there is no other punishment better deserving for them.

If you arent happy in a marriage, for goodness sake get out of it, end it.

If you donot have the balls to take that step or are too lazy to get off your arse to work for yourself and provide for yourself instead of living off your husband than shut up and stay faithful to the relationship.

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Wow was it a post on Gupshup? In any case, I 100% agree with you. There is no excuse for cheating, if your married you should NOT be looking outside of your marriage in the 1st place. And if such a situation happens, end it with hubby, get a divorce & then think about moving on to another man. Most likely the other man probably wants to use her for kicks & then drop her like a dime. Horrible, I also despise people who do that.

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adrasteia can you tell me which post was it. pm me the link

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It was in the Blogs, go through the recent comments you will find it.

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well said adrasteia :k:

when I read that blog I was utterly disgusted as well. Shameful!

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blog? how? never used it.

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Just click on block/journal up there in top menu then read dosra marad.
It is realy disgusting story coming out of a desi khatoon. May Allah guide her to right path. Ameen.

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Yeah I went to blog , but I kept looking at adrastia's pictures.
lol not bad looking at all.

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Sudhar jao :smilestar:

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Amen sista. preach on

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:@:aaawww knockout_artist and Adrastia up in a tree k-i…oh wait, is adrastia married? :konfused: forget it then:D

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^well hellooooo, are you too?

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No Im not married and No I donot wanto kiss knockout artist :barbie:

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i agree...and it goes both ways....the wife and the husband....

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agreed!

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not married ??? hmm
and you don’t know till you try.

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Proof of pudding is in ....

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i agree wid ADRA :k: as well as the part of patharifying may that be the guy or the gal. :k:

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me?

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What kind of balls are we talking about?