Re: Justifying a Cheat
Thanks to everyone. And Adre, please dont take it personal. Even im feeling disgusted with whatever happened. Good or bad, i cant bear myself seen and portrayed as a Mantu or Asmat Chughtayi in a making. Yes, my blog is viewable, but then what are blogs for, if you have no freedom to write whatever you feel like and you become a victim to a spectacle like this. How people take that story is their perspective. To me, it was just a wonder if your first love keeps on bugging you, this much more that one has to go back to their lover even after 12 years of marriage. Well. Staying was my pick and quitting is all the same. No one should feel bad about it. Take cares you all. Im leaving my blogs open. For you all to view, and re view, and tell others, to read it. To learn a lesson that such things shouldnt be written. They are false. This is not happening. This was only an erotic story to vent my frustrations. And that writing such things is as bad as to be doomed this way. Cheers.
I dont think that you should let this be the reason for you to quit. Most people just see what they want to see. Again who are they or Us to Judge, it should be left to the ultimate Judge.
I still think that a blog entry shoul not had been made into a topic where the writer is exposed to trying to explain about it.If that was the case, they could have opened a thread themselves. And for the poster, if it was a topic that you think should be a topic, then it shouldnt have been linked to the blog poster's post. Should have been general.