Re: just wondering.....
In the past women would endure so much pain and heartache by remaining in marriages that were destructive. As society has developed, women in our community are no longer standing for this abusive kind of treatment. For women like that I fully understand why divorce is a way out.
On the other hand, I think people take relationships too lightly. There's no working through problems or exhausting every possible avenue until divorce is considered. People don't have the patience like they used to. Nowadays it's all too easy for people to walk away from a relationship when faced with an easily resolvable issue.
No-one really knows what is right, except those in that position. They are the ones who go through the problems on a daily basis and only they know what is right for them.
Nobody should have to suffer in a relationship that is destructive.