Re: just wondering…
well, it all depends on ppl, In college i had a friend who was one of the best person you can hang out with, she was a year or so older than me but i really respected her and used to call her baji, khair a year later one of my close friends started liking her and he told me, now me being the good guy i am tried to talk to baji and found out that she was a divorcee, and to be honest i was shocked and had no idea how to react and on top of that she told me she did not wanna be in a relationship of any sort, khair i asked her one day as to what happened and she told me how she was married to her cousin ( love marriage mind you ) and pata nahi Allah kee marzee thee ya pata nahi she could not concieve, khair the guys mom started tanaybaazi and started giving her son ideas of a second marriage, khair when finally my friend had had it she decided to call it quits and come back to canada to her parents and to be honest if you met this girl and had no idea about her past you would never guess that she had so much baggage, lekin 2 yrs later she got married and MashaAllah is a mother of 2 kids with someone else and even happier. But on the other hand i have seen bad cases as well but y mention negative things anyways 