Re: just wondering.....
^but PYG - the 20 years starts out from one, two, three... a lot of people hold on to marriage for kids... so kids have both parents in their lives and don't call parents selfish for seperating for their own look out. Once kids grow up.. the time is around 20 years.... so I don't think a man and a woman just wakes up one day after 20 years to seperate. they probably held on for that long and they probably feel now is a good time.
everyone's circumstance is different...no one should judge the years of marriage and keep them responsible to keep put forever.