Just got married a few weeks weeks ago...

Sara516 · October 21, 2009, 4:37am

I dont find amusing when wives who work and complain they are over worked! cause I find my wife complaining it about all the time… and hey the difference is she is not working at all. she stays at home and find cooking and keep kitchen a bit clean is too much and she doesnt get time for herself at all

no i dont have my parents living with me. and… i find cleaning and living standards are gone down since i got married, it was much better when i myself used to cook every second day after work and only clean the house on the weekends, and its the same house as i bought it 2 years before getting married!! but somehow wife still thinks its too much for her. i do help her out on weekends. now you girls tell me why she thinks its too much. and i am not kind of guy who leave things around. even i cook, kitchen sparkles during and after my cooking, same goes for bathroom, if i take shower over the weekend and find it need cleaning, i clean it myself first and then take shower.

in your case i guess its too much expected from you, so what you do manage it smartly and make some of the stuff be done by hubby or anything that MIL enjoy doing. i am diabetic myself and my mum too, though she doesnt live with us, but she do still cook for my father and light house stuff.

I think your situation is a bit different. Sorry to hear about your case though. hope it improves.