Just got married a few weeks weeks ago...

[kiran_bride2be]

@Xenophanez

I thought so. You can’t change their living style over night or in few months. You have to be very patient otherwise it will translated as BOSSY daughter-in-law. Start working towards a change from your husband, as he would be more open to a change. Ask him to make bed or some minor chores on weekends while you are busy doing something else. Start from small tasks. Also on weekends you can ask your MIL to give you hand in cooking. If her attitude towards you is nice then ask her recipes when you are cooking (even if you know it) that will keep her engaged in kitchen with you. Do whatever you do BUT do not criticis their living style as it will only strain your relationship with them.

Thanks for your advice, I will try that from now