Re: just found out something new...
the thing is, they are b*****ing about me to people that KNOW ME and know them, i come on an anonymous forum and its people who dont know me let alone them......so there is a difference.
and secondly, there is another thing that is worrying, and will most likely be happening in my absence, is brainwashing of my husband....his mum has a way of saying things and turning people against people. if she can do that in my presence, im sure shel make most of it without m...plus they are beginning o make me feel guilty about going for 6months....should i feel guilty....my husband will natuirally be upset/or whatever, how do i make him realise its something for the best, rather than me being selfish....i dono. i have a feeling that she will use the 6months to turn him against me....
nahi man, its a serious possibility, cos i know her. she already says things WHILE im here, im sure she will def say things such as deko how could she leave for a long time why cudnt she have kid here, how cud she take the 1yr old with her and miss her phupos wedding, what kind of bhabidoes that, does she not care for us, etc etc and slowly it will seep into his mind,
she works differently, she never OPENLY will say ur wife is xxxxx, she will make the other person THINK it for themselves by slowly seeping ****e into his head.....and at the end of the day, he aint over the moon about me going, hes not being moody, but its obvious he will be upset, so she can play on that already......
Okay well the only solution I see to this problem is one you will not like.
Go and have your baby. But come right back asap.
It sounds like your MIL doesn't really want you guys to be together. At least I get that feeling from your posts.
If you love him, you have to do everything in your power to make sure you guys don't lose track of each other.
I do think she can do some serious damage and believe you because I've seen it happen with my own eyes.
I know it will be hard but you will have to come back right away.