just a question

Re: just a question

First things first, tell the Guy to get a paternity test taken…if it is his, then i agree with Mamaof3…it’s his responsiblity to take care of his child, marriage or no marriage…if their both muslims then the girl has a really hard road ahead of her and he needs to be supportive even if they decide not to get married…and if she’s a muslim girl and he will not marry her, then i think there is no choice but to abort the fetus even though i don’t like that idea…if they can, adoption is better, in my opinion…but yes, the important thing is that he needs to talk (and listen) to her about all this and together they must come to a mutal agreement…good luck :slight_smile: