Just 5 years to live

Lifestyle Relationships
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Heeheee.

and im sorry but was it me who just got discreetly dissed or someone else?

Tum say pehlay
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You hurt me Aisha. I like when you hurt me :wub:

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Aisha is everything okay :hugz:

Tum say pehlay
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:chai:

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intoxicated not in the mood... mods can close this thread if they want to.

Timepass - February
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i will miss you Aisha :(

maar aya hoon
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i know its easier said than done. But i think in this situation definately one must let their spouse know about their condition. Ofcourse there is no deny that life is unpredictable and someone very fit mite just die the next minute but still if someone knows abt their condition they shouldnt hide it from their spouse.

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Aisha...this is a very difficult situation to be in but the right answer is a very hard one.

You have to tell the guy. The thing is, this could have happened to him too...would you have left him if he was sick and not you? Think about that.

Tell him the truth and then watch what happens. If he supports you and stays with you...then you have 5 years of love and happiness to look forward to. You can have children with him aur apni poori zindagi ji lena in 5 years mein. Its more then what a lot of people get. Some dont even get warnings, some dont get timeframes, they are gone just like that.

Im hoping this is a hypothetical situation.

~~~Missing Someone~~~
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I would marry 4 times over and treat them all equally. :D

~~~Missing Someone~~~
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^ wrong thread? :hmmm:

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marriage would be the last thing on my mind. If i knew I had a few months or years to live...I would want to accomplish many things in life and marriage would not be one them. besides it would be unfair to the guy.

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Wow sounds like a gr8 muslim rare to be found.

Are you a Muslim I have girls would you like to marry them?

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You are right I might do what amir pindi said about a lady. But if I'm nikahfied or engaged then I'll ask him what he want. If he love me that much and would prefer to marry me then I would ask him to help me in taking me for hajj and or umrah + to meet all relatives and spend my time in tableegh of Islam to my relatives and others.

Will try to buil a majid + Madarsa + Islamic School + Anaat ashram + Ladies ashram and would try to do as much as I can If I'll get enough money and support.

What if I one day tell you guys that I have some kind of cancer would you guys pray for me even whom I didn't talk chaplosi way and we had some fighting and some truths or whatever even my dushmans or whoever don't like me.

I would love to hear from all of you especially my dushmans and or who don't like me or my way of saying things.

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^ you are one confused bugger.

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oh god why was this thread revived:smack: the matter was solved!

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You think so thank you. lol