Re: Just 5 years to live
…Now the issue with telling him, is it going to be face to face?, if so, they need to go to a place..if not possible at home, nobody other than you and him, maybe a family wala park, not a resturant though.
Then, start off with the visit to the doc, and what was the outcome of that. Be cool and calm..no tears, if you do cry..then he will think of it as emotional blackmail.
Phir tell him, this is all i have to say..Keep quiet after that,maybe he will get angry, yell at you..scold you…i dont know the reaction..:(..but keep quiet and calm, you need to be strong to both you and him. You need to ask him to take time and then make a decision which you both should be happy with. If he wants to part ways, then so be it..You cannot hold a person to you if they dont want to, even if its going to hurt like heck.
Maybe if you do pressurize him, he will agree to stay; but do you really want that..na, not me.
Now telling the family, if it was me; I would not tell most, not initially:). Thats how i am, not when i can support myself, get myself the treatment. But if i have to depend on others for monetory support, do go ahead and tell them.
Be wise and Be happy!! Allah Taa’ala will Guide us all:hugz: