Re: jus friends
PakiPride... Lol do you want actual advice or only stuff you want to hear...lets break it down... You can either let him do what he does and by not being clear with him you can be accused of leading the guy on...now this mean his hopes will grow and mean he will be even more upset when he realises you dont share those feelings... You are clear with him about the fact that you arent interested...now what are the possible implications...if we want to be optimistic it will hurt him that you arent interested but he may decide to stay friends but there will still be that awkwardnsss for both of you and he'll also live in hope of you changing your mind... Other way he can go is get hurt and then treat you like the badguy...he doesnt want to be friends anymore cos hes hurt and there might be an awkwardness between you and friends over the incident...
Whatever happens he will get hurt and whatever happens there will be awkwardness...
Just a question to you anyway,,,are you quite happy to be friends with a guy that you know would rather be with you than be friends with you...
Im not saying it cant work but remember you will be the friend he will be the one hoping you change your mind...
dayum boi
jus wen i think of usin ur advice u say sumfin that holdz me bak
so i guess there aint no easy way outta this ****
so even if we do stay friends
it aint gonna b the same init