What qualities do you see in a man that make you think he is a slave to his wife?
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heaven forbid he’s nice to her and doesnt beat her when the food isn’t warm enough for him 
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my bro in law sumtimes skips work in order to take my sister shopping …his friends call him joru ka ghulaam :halo:
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I make my wife a hot bowl of oatmeal in the mornings as soon as she takes the first angRRaaee. The bowl is ready and at the kitchen counter as her highness steps in the kitchen.
Now, people think I am being a joru kaa Ghulaam. But I think I am keeping her from eating paraathaas and omlettes and thereby keeping her in good shape. you be the judge.
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funguy more like smart guy :D
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Now, people think I am being a joru kaa Ghulaam. But I think I am keeping her from eating paraathaas and omlettes and thereby keeping her in good shape. you be the judge.
the second part is fineeeeeee..but after readin the first part i do think tht ur being juru ka gulam..i mean even girls dont do tht for guys anymore!
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Aana jee, I get a satisfaction, an inner peace, and sole searching nirvana when I prepare and offer others food. Aap ko kyaa keeRRa hay jee?
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Now, people think I am being a joru kaa Ghulaam. But I think I am keeping her from eating paraathaas and omlettes and thereby keeping her in good shape. you be the judge.
you have ppl fooled.. good job :)
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when he is scared to tell his wife that he is going out with his friends and when he does…he has this nervous look on his face. 
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^ good one. I have a friend who sneaks out after his wife goes to sleep. :D
My wife is very understanding when it comes to me spending time with my buddies. She encourages me to hang out with my male buddies as "the boyz gotta have a time out". It is quite normal in my circle of friends (all married) to have a guys only bbq or movie. And we reciprocate by holding parties for our families where they don't have to do anything. This way they know each others friends and feel comfortable when the hubbies are out.
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thats so sad....it's like he's a teenager all over again.
when the time comes I would encourage my husband to hang out with his friends as well. A guy (just like some girls) need time away from home.
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Exactly! Like we have a "Wife Appreciation Day" usually on Mother Days every year where the dads keep the children at home or take them to Chuck E Chesse's and the wives are given gift cards for Nail and Hair places or malls and they get to spend the whole day out. Trust me we the men, milk this for the rest of the year by going out to macho action packed movies, playing cricket at night, watching cricket together, etc.
Women are very easy to please. You just have to press the right buttons at the right places, I mean the right times.
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The guy who dumps his aged and withering parents leaving them to the mercy of the elements and decides to go live separately with his wife who he has just known for barely over a year but suddenly holds way more importance for him than his parents who spent their lives raising him and faced countless hardships to give him a good life-- just because dear wifey doesnt like living with the old hags.
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When he doesn't make his own decisions and does everything his wife tells him to do. Ya gotta mantain your personality after marriage; I don't see any reason to do everything your spouse tells you to do just because they are your spouse. Makes no sense and reeks of "joru ka ghulam". I didn't know that's what the phrase meant. Just thought it was the name of some movie.
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guy can be named as joru ka ghulam when he dare not speak a single word against her highness even she is wrong, and ready to be instructed by her what to do and what not to do. they guy who is scared to take own decision when required.
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I have one dua from Allah meeya.. “Allah karain mayri shadi khabi juro kay ghulam say na ho” 
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abay frogan its joru not goru 
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a guy who counts on his wife for everything, is reluctant in front of her , follows her ( instead of leading her) everywhere , speaks less and listen more of her .............................. is a clear indication.
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interesting...
why then is a female expected to do all this for her hubby then? is she not "shohar ki ghulam" then?
everyone needs to maintain some independance in a relationship, but doing something for ur significant other doesnt make anyone a slave.. listening to ur spouse, doing as they ask... or cooking them something.. massaging them when they're tired...these arent signs of ghulami... its more about love, understanding and caring..
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log "juru ka ghulaam"un logo ko kehte hain jab they are not satisfied in their own houses.I think its a matter of care how every one reacts toward their wife, so i cannot say i saw any people whom i call juru ka ghulaam.