I know alot of you are probably about to get married or are already married…
Most people come on this message board to get their point across, express their feelings about something and sometimes u slip ur jokes here and there with opposite gender …sometimes u send them hugging kissing smilies as jokes or flirt.
I know alot of married guppies who have done this …But how does your partner (gf/bf/hubby/wife) go on about this. Would you want your partner to read everything you ever wrote on this website?
Does your partner mind that you come online and sometimes u had hugs/smilies to other genders as a joke? Would sending smilies/hugs be considered cheating?
Do u come on here and sometimes b*tch about ur partner ?
hugging/kissing smilies are just affection thingie, nothing like a serious hug/kiss in real life:Dwith opposite gender..
he can read anything i put on the site…it’s just me:halo:
furqi its the level of trust you have with your spouse. my future woh reads most of my posts, and i get feedback (yelling) all the time for being mean or ignorant. but she knows that its harmless.
if you trust sum1 then you dont hide n e thing from them.
GS is a tome pass, and if my future hubby were to read it i wudnt mind. cos i know that i am not serious at all.
i post alot in the cafe, alot of joking and laughing, but tht dusn mean i am serious with what i say.
sum pple reading it would think, OMG wht kind of girl is she or dus she have no sharam.
but i know inside me that i am not serious, and i wud hope that he would under stand this too
(havnt got a future woh yet so am talking generaly)
My bf knows i chat...i always tell him about funny/serious posts to amuse him.......he does't really care too much...but i thinks that's more to do with his nature...he's not a jealous type of person....even though somtimes i wish he was! ;)
I am not married yet but wether i'm married or not, I would not ever think of doing it. Since I don't hug or kiss the opposite gender in person, I don't consider doing it in the internet either. Some might find that weird but that is just the value I put in myself. I just don't go hugging, touchimg or kissing the other gender. It's a matter of morals. The same rules apply when I get married. I would'nt be too happy to see my husband do it to other women so I can't imagine doing it to him.
i'm confused cuz u said ur shareef, then u said u had boyfriend, then u said u didn't, n now ur saying reading ur posts doesnt bother him. Any logical person wud be confused.
no way, he’s too nice:blush:
furqi its the level of trust you have with your spouse. my future woh reads most of my posts, and i get feedback (yelling) all the time for being mean or ignorant. but she knows that its harmless.
or 
smiley on their spouse..
