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i am shareef, i never said i had a boyfriend and I don't have a boyfriend. :)
I don't have to explain/justify myself any further :)
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They shouldn't have a problem, if you tell them yourself
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I am so against those hugs and kisses smilies cuz first of all I wouldnt do ti in real and if you dont really mean it then wahts the point of sending such msgs across? I remember i used to have a sig that said to stay away from me and not expect me to return hugs…i find the whole idea annoying 
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My fiance used to use them quite often(and it was extremely annoying), he can still use em often as long as they are for me :D
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exactly dear friend that is exactly why I didnt marry.
first of all no woman in her right mind would spend hours
and hours and hours if she is either married or taken or
engaged or soon to be married.
I broke my engagement
because i found out that she spent 1 hour with me a week
on the phone and fcuk'g 30 hrs/wk on this chatting/flirting
w/others. So pleas dont say this aint destructive if women
dont stop this bull crap. If they are single they can come and
go chat and gossip their life away. But noway i was going to
allow my woman to give her chat buddies time & attention
which was rightfully mine and should have been spent with
me. It was because she was hooked onto this. Hooked YES
No wonder it ended the way it did. I caught her over and
over and over and yes she lied saying checking emails. YES
iam a jealous type.
But then some men don't care what their women do ?
infact if you poll 95 percent of parents and men
dont even know what their daughters are doing online. They
think their daughters are doing their homeworks or research
or a good cause philanthropic work volunteering their frk'g
time and energy to this internet pms and emails and so on
and so forth. Like the saying goes you can fool some people
some of the time but cant fool all the people all the time.
Even if they are innocent - MEN find a way to destroy
them. Now if you are taken and chat an hour ok but every
day everynight hours n hours thats not kosher not at all.
But iguess like the western discos this has become a meat
market a pick up place a rendezvous point so why not if you
are single yes by all means-GO-AHEAD. I would too if i was.
But i am a muslim and sadly my religion does not allow to
flirt specially if you are taken for GODs sake. So i am back
to being single and available again. If i meet a muslim
woman i like here i might propose but once committed I wud
never deprive her of the quality time just to chat & gossip.
NEVER. she deserves and gets all my time PERIOD
-the end-
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Do you married/in-relationship/soon-to-be-married people give each other any breathing room at all or you share every little details of your lives? Do you check each others’ skidmarks for consistency as well? 
Sheesh people, have a life of your own and create some breathing room for yourself.
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Yupz..
i hated how.. ev erything was “oh my boyfriend doesnt like that.. he doesnt like this..” , talking to each other every 5 minutes, omg i wanted to punch her 
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LI, mature people have a life of their own when they meet, so we don’t need to build our lives independently any more, it’s already done!:halo:
and everyone has his own definition of a relationship…
for us, NO secrets is allowed! and we share Everything!
breathing room?? it’s not meaning hiding stuff …it’s just that everyone has has different lives…so no need build even more gaps btw a couple:D
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lol....what if you don't have time to spend 30 hours/week with your girlfriend? do you prefer that she gossips with neighbors or chat on net???
do you prefer she goes out with male friends or chat with them on net??
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Awwww Ms Circular Logic, thanks for shedding light on your sharing habits. I wonder how quickly your familiarity turns into loathsome weariness. But what do you care, you just burden the poor guy with every stench, irregularity and imperfection – assaults to senses should be considered spousal abuse – for the sake of sharing ‘everything’.
Keep it up, he’d build a gap big enough to fit a continent or two. 
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Congratulations!!!:biggthumb
I was addicted to flirting but know i forbit myself to flirt…especialy now,when my bf is in Sydney…I don’t want to do anything what I would not like that he would see it…
Keep on same trust level u have:)
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If u r serious about ur relationships with sm one...then u will think what u do when he is not with u...if ur interested in only one person in ur life u will not be flirting with another...and if u want to flirt so much then u can flirt with ur spouse or bf/gf...it will even bring some spicy in relationship...:D
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what does all that mean???
LI, how long have you been married, do you think married people should live far away in order to be stranger and not share their lives?
yes i’m fat, and if you think that it’s a burden to the poor guy, sorry but he chose it!..don’t assume all guys hate fat girls cause it ain’t true!
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no its not 
Sara SEE now you would never do that in real 
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He would’nt mind 
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parrissenoor
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" do you prefer she goes out with male friends or chat with them on net?? ""
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.So as i understand todays women being engaged or taken in dere spare
time would date other guys while being taken. Perfectly modern mind set
dats why divorce stands at 60 % in some societies.
My woman wud have a hobby or work or chores to amuse her no wasting
killin time spree unlike some i see evry day every nite all the time sadly..
their hubbies need to get em some hobby or perhaps spend more time wid
them. Its all personal mind set choices preferences taught early in age or
told to follow . But then empty what does it do.. ?? Guess what
Yes ur rite your right - - - :)
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ya because you got COOTIES! and since you r a doctor wanna-be you gotta becareful of not passing it on to any1 else 
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is that towards furqan? furqan has a man?
good for you Furqan!
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lol...oooo diss.