Re: Jethani....or lack thereof.
Thank you everyone for your personal and candid responses. I have lived with this matter for the last 3 years and yes it bothers me, but I also know that I cannot change individuals and their own personality. As adults, there are certain norms that most of us follow. I am happy with my in-laws and my husband and in the end thats all that matters. You can't pick and choose every single future relative and I guess I have to accept that.
I just wrote all this on gupshup because I wanted to get a "feel" for what others think about this situation. Would you have done any differently ? Your responses were all honest ones and my case is a genuine one also. In the end, I am happy for the most part and that's all that matters to me.
Thanks again for your input.