Re: jethani devrani…
My case is completly differ from all of u. i am jethani. and my daver will get marry soon. And my daverani is my enemy. Means her mother was like best friend of my mother and lived in front of my mother’s house. after some years she moved to a residential part of the same area. during all that years , she shows herslf a gud friendby sharing her problems. but she never shares her dress, child’s school or tutuion, even she moved to another house , if she want to attend call she picks, otherwise her daughter said she is busy with guest or nt at home.
At my marriage , her daughter show interest in my daver and exchange phne number herself. we all unaware from this. after 3-4 months, my MIL went to her house and she immediatly told us. we were shocked. and said to her if she likes my daver , go a head , v r nt doing any commitment( means larka kaisa hai thk hai kam krta hai ya nahi). After this her mother stopped to call us. and saying bad to everyone abut us.
Nw i am completly dont that her daughter become my daverni. but nothing in my hand, its love marraige. and her mother saying bad to MIL abut me and my family. I am thinkng wt would be happen when she will be at my house. occassionally whenever i hv to visit her house like on eid, v hardly excahnge salam and nothing more.
i am thinking she never be gud for me. and i will keep myself bound before her. dont need to talk.
wt do u say? any opinion?
Uff. Really?
I would just suggest you to speak to your husband about her. Do not talk to your inlaws about that because that would only make them feel you are insecure. So, only speak to your husband. Tell him the entire history and tell him to be ready for the upcoming dramas!!!