Jealousy

Lifestyle Relationships
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I think girls who get super jealous and crazy are..well...crazy. they have serious issues.

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trust is the issue at the end of the day.....if you trust him then dats fine buh if the girls shady then tink i wud have to sort her out...i mean physically.........i get jealous so does he buh we know we love each other dats it.....ur not wiv ur hubbi 24/ and men and women work toghter all the time...my hubbi trusts me and vise versa.......

What age did you get engaged/married?
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how can we avoid jealousy? When we don't talk to non-mehram people unnecessarily...

I'm not allowed to interfere in your busines, but questions are allowed!

You consider yourself to be muslims, then don't you know talking to non-mehram people is forbidden until it's necessary?

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To answer the original question: I can't even imagine being with a man who, after our marriage, sits on Facebook and MSN speaking to other girls that he is "very close to".

Would I be jealous? I don't think jealousy is the correct word. I would think something awfully wrong with him. And the girls who are talking to him.

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I didnt get it. You mean that the *hypothetical girl *is your fren as well??
Dude, then ill talk to my fren as well. simple

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she is your friend? woah okay. and she talks to him all the time?

if she really was your friend and cared about you then she would refrain from speaking to him.

you know i NEVER talk to my best friend's husband unnecessarily. never wiht him alone and even when she is there very little. i even try to avoid going over to her house when he is there. bcs i do not want any misnderstanding even though we all used to be good freinds back in highschool and there is nothing like this in my heart. we are paksitanis we shoulod know to keep limits otherwise problems arise.

i am sorry aisha but your female friend does not seem to be your friend.

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this coming from a guy sista!

if your guy is talking and being close to other girl online buddies, its a red flag. can't make it more simple than it is.

~*~ Time Pass June 2012 ~*~
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thank you everyone for the posts.

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hats off for honesty

Dilki Ye Tamanna Na Taali Jaye
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If she is your friend and being friendly with this guy...I smell trouble. No friend does that.

I never even speak to my friends' husbands aside from simple exchanges of hello and how are you. I dont even know their email addresses and never asked...we've been best friends for over ten years now.

The one time I did have a friend like that it was not a pretty scenario and...lets just say we're no longer friends. :)

Dilki Ye Tamanna Na Taali Jaye
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^Ok thank you.

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Honestly I would get jealous. Even if he talks about any other girl then I can't bear that. It's annoying and unbearable.

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what about women who he works with?

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So,what would you do to overcome such jealousy?

Timepass-July 2012
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is there a reason to overcome this? the thing he is doing i.e talking to close friends on facebook and msn in my opinion is not nice so if i get jealous should i be the one to straighten myself out?

Timepass-July 2012
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So,would you fight with him regarding this,or would you accept everything as it is?

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if it was happening to me, i would not accept it ofcourse! i would definitely have a talk with him.

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hmmm,then, what if,he would say that,he wouldn't stop it,i.e,chatting,etc with other females?what would you do then?

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Slap him...nah seriously would talk to him if not then its the silent treeatment :)

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i will definitely have a chat with him about this matter because i would not like this matter at all!