**Absolutely agree here with you. It is not allowed unless it is really important. In today’s world where there is a lot of intermixing etc this cannot be absolutely avoided but as you said only for important matters. Do not give the opposite sex a chance to even think about you. **
**I agree with Numb, not because i have sympathy with him but because i feel he is right. There is no such thing as a “NO” even if someone has absolute faith and trust on someone else they should always be involved with them. We are all human beings and jealousy is something we get easily involved in. As we are human beings misunderstandings are easily created and if you do not keep even a little bit of check this misunderstanding will become associated with jealousy and then it can easily create problems with mangetars or husband/wives. Consider this: You do not keep a check on your husband and he talks on MSN with a friend of his who is a girl. They are very frank with each other. You happen to read his chat logs hypothetically speaking and you see that the chat is really frank. Wouldnt you think there is someone else in his life? This is the first thing a fiance or wife will think and it is certainly what i thought. Later you will confront him and ask him ‘tumne mujhe kyon nahi bataya tha is ke bare mai?’ then problems and arguments and fights… After all the drama etc it will be discovered that it is just a friend but you would not want him talking to other girls frankly on MSN again would you? and this time you will indeed keep a check on your husband… same goes for if a girl does it. **
**Numb, you are not posting useless posts. This is my thread and in my opinion whoever contributes in it has contribted something worthwhile as i was looking for people’s opinions. You are not a women hater or guppan posts basher as i am sure you do not hate me. There is an old adage ‘hell hath no fury like a woman scorned’ … this adage specially goes for those women who are husband stealers and when they are not able to do that then they get mighty angry and try to sabotage the family and the husband’s image in front of his wife. No i am not writing fictional filmy stuff here this actually happens in the world. Even fictinal filmy stuff’s inspirations come from what happens in the real world mostly. So the matter of fact is jealousy is natural and it does happen! **