ok OFFICIAL LAST POST I PROMISE 
pleasure is all mine yar. i had fun chatting with u too. i lvoe talking to intelluctual ppl and more than that, ppl who respect others opinions yet put their point acrossā¦
why wud u think i wudnt noticeā¦ i m all around GS. hehehe have a gr8 day! bye
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hehe at official last post:cb: well thank you for calling me intellectual and also someone who respects other peopleās opinions:)
LOL i dont know cuz maybe you mentioning about the stuff i make was such a surprise.
bye! 
^^And why should she? She is answering me right? I am not forcing her to answer my replies in this thread? It is up to her and you let her decide, do not tell her to put her energies somewhere else.
** As for the husband duties, see you do not get one thing is. Some of the wives they like to do things for their husbands, it is not because they are forced to. Also consider this, your husband will be more happy if you cooked the food for him rather than a maid. Same way your husband will be more happy if you did the work because he knows you love him etc**
Plus you are questioning me about this what about the mentality of some wives who think gifts are necessary for each and every occasion and love is weighed in how much gifts he has given? Same as wife working around the household is not necessary gifts are not necessary then why do we expect them? Gifts should be given with love and not forced and similarly the work is done with love and not forced upon the wife. Plus dear, not all people are rich enough to afford maids who can do the work for you. Also if you do not actually know how to do the work then how can you tell the maid to do it correctly?
actually, i get it more than you could know. i have been a parent almost equal to my mother for my siblings and i have every intention of being a stay a home mother when the time comes. but i also won't give up my intellectual pursuits because i want a full life. i'm sure my husband would also become very depressed if he had a mundane job and the same routine everyday. everyone needs balance in their lives and this is what most people lack.
i apologise for what i said. i was just becoming exasperated with some of your replies and it really seemed that you and sahar were looking at the issue from completely differing perspectives. but lets not argue about that now. i don't think that anyone is saying a woman should 'work' but just do something more than just home and kids because once they are all in school, what are you going to do with your free time? watch dramas, gossip etc??
anyway, i think this discussion has come to a close.
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Yeah that is what we all decided and if you did read some of my later replies i did agree with women working but gave reasons for both sides of the argument. Anyways it is alright, apology accepted and yes what it came down to was that women should never be idle. I think so unless someone else has anything to say.
hahaha! yup, with due respect to aisha, i think there is no harm in a woman working, i myself work. but yeah in a way she is rite, essentially or islamically, we were not born to work, i guess we were born to nurture relationships, which is sad but true so we cant deny that either :)
Of course jihad (struggle) is for both men and women. People who think women are meant for rest all day are stupid.
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Of course jihad (struggle) is for both men and women. People who think women are meant for rest all day are stupid.
hahahaha! yeah
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well that is ur opinion hareem, and if you would have read all the thread, the conclusion was that be it a woman is at home or she is working she shouldnt stay idle. and please refrain from calling anyone stupid even generally some people might get offended.
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I didn't know Dubai has advanced so much that a 6 year old kid needs a PS3!?
Or a mp3 player...does he know what mp3 means? :D
On Eid I didn't even see money, never even saw any...maybe 10 Deutsche Mark which are 5 ā¬ Today...Yeah, I'm living in the stone age, I'm 110 % sure...
So nurturing relationships is sad? cool
You donāt need to teach meā¦if people think that then they are really stupidā¦btw how often do you use f word in your blog?
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anyways, this discussion is closed.
I do not wish to argue with you hareem baji as i respect you and do not wish to create a scene.
thank you.
anyways, this discussion is closed.
I do not wish to argue with you hareem baji as i respect you and do not wish to create a scene.
thank you.
I know you are in favour of women staying at home and so am I. I was only calling stupid to those who mistake staying at home with resting at home.
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Oh alright i get it now :) thank you.