aisha, i agree with you to an extent. but ab pehle jaisa zamana nahi raha meri jaan. now u have to work and support your husband. ap toh dubai mein ho, u shud know what i mean. nowdays if a woman dusnt work, how can the children study in the best schools, have the best car and all the materialistic things the children of this age want? nahi naukri karo then also children become insecure becus of their parent's inability to provide them luxuries. another thing, its not necessary honey if someone has a maid, the children will b unloved and not looked after. han, thora bahat time management mein different aye ga but that can be taken care of, its not impossible you know. i believe if you try really hard you can juggle, its not that tough. the situation you are talking abt is of a woman who is like, working long hours, dusnt have weekends, dusnt find time to play, teach, sit with kids... most of us are working 9-5 and its not that tough.
yehi to tum logon ki ghalat soch hai...why provide them with luxuries? why? It doesn't have to be the best school. People go to Russia, Romania, Bulgaria, study medicine or whatever they like for less money, but get the same education...
materialistic things? Dajjal has arrived on Earth, I'm so sorry, but I had 2 mention this. why would parents become insecure if they can't provide their kids with the so much needed luxury...
Saadgi ke saath jeena chai hai and say never no. No offense, but the way you think, no wonder we are goin' away from the values to luxuries, money, blood, kill and whatsoever...