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they should waste their energy on their career...I'd encourage them to do so, later on when kids got no values they can all blame it on the multi millionaire mother who has gained money, a piece of paper but no love...they can do that, I'm fine wid that...as long as my wife isn't like that I have no problems...
this is why people in the west put their parents in the home for aged...because they have no rishta to them anymore...I have 2 friends, the one sits downstairs 24/7...he only talks to his mother when he needs money or something to eat or if he has something to do and he needs his mom because of the car. His brother sits 24/7 in his room. Starring like a dumbass, drool coming out of the mouth, to the TV...
Same story with him. Their mother is a governess...She's raisin' other kids, but couldn't raise her own...The mother will go on voluntary base into the home for aged...She realized she failed, they both would be 2 dumb 2 sign her in the home for aged...
how lucky of you to have a nice wife... gud for you dear. but please dun generalise. zarori nahi that working women pass on no values to their children. what you think is your right but please dont impose it and make it appear as if this is it, if youre not with me, youre gone... i know western ppl have no values and desi ppl are also turning into them, which is not gud, but not everyone is same. and who says if u r working you dun love ur kids and cannot raise them to b gud individuals??? yeh sab apki personal opinions hian jinki mein respect karti hon.. so why not we act like mature adults and let one another speak our mind without getting any fierce retailiation back... thanks :)