Sahar when mommies and daddies work the kids are left in the care of babysitters and daycare people and maids. I do not know about how it is done in the US but over here and in Pakistan the parents leave their kids with the maids and they are busy doing their things and do not look after the kids properly and niether do the kids get the properly love care and attention that they need from their parents. I have seen many cases of people who were mentally disturbed or did crimes because they were deprived of maternal and paternal love and also because they harboured this revenge like instint against their parents because they were not there for them when the kids needed them in childhood. Later on when the child is all grown up and does things on his own he/she says mai aap ki baat kyon suno? aapne kya kiya tha mere lye? where were you when i needed you? aap tu mere sports day par bhi nahi asake/asaki!
aisha, i agree with you to an extent. but ab pehle jaisa zamana nahi raha meri jaan. now u have to work and support your husband. ap toh dubai mein ho, u shud know what i mean. nowdays if a woman dusnt work, how can the children study in the best schools, have the best car and all the materialistic things the children of this age want? nahi naukri karo then also children become insecure becus of their parent's inability to provide them luxuries.
another thing, its not necessary honey if someone has a maid, the children will b unloved and not looked after. han, thora bahat time management mein different aye ga but that can be taken care of, its not impossible you know. i believe if you try really hard you can juggle, its not that tough. the situation you are talking abt is of a woman who is like, working long hours, dusnt have weekends, dusnt find time to play, teach, sit with kids... most of us are working 9-5 and its not that tough.