i opened a thread entitled :strictly mod/admin reply required!!!: and was hoping to achieve a coherent reply, NOTHING was something which didn’t answer my query properly and then b4 i could reply to that the thread was closed by who me???
so here goes try number 2, explain this time why nothing will be done about the nature of such posts + don’t put a tala on this thread as well b4 a clear explantion is attainable; as part of ur job role is too listen to and answer our QUERIES in a proper and just manner.
regarding your concerns about Virginity thread, I think its very informative and clears many misconceptions about the issue. mind it that sex education is not a very common thing in sub-continent, Pakistan in particular. would you catagorize studying human body in medical colleges as "behayaii" as well??
about taking bath togather thread, you said that husband and wife should talk about it, but can you explain how they will know if its OK or not? or its against Islam unless they heard it somewhere or read about it???
Having brother in laws kids thread... hmm that again tells us about what is happening behind closed doors in our society!
The people discussing these issues are all adults and I don't see any harm in having a positive healthy conversation. atleast they are not bashing each other for a change!
^ patah nahien kisa itna behtareen (sarcistic tone) idea tha. they had so many hits in that forum though..lol even though ppl rarely replied but the views were mostly more than 500 per thread :D
informational nevertheless.
^ iam sure some of the mullah types had problem with it.. but majority did participate in it. sharing their experiences and knowledge.. ofcourse then there were those who made fun n jokes about it, harmless or not so harmless. it was a fun place though. :D
ohh and ppl who used to post there were considered not so good people, for some weird reason.
corner room topics were so hushed up in cafe ofcourse. ..waisay i agree. they shud bring it back before ppl start topics like great tips to make out in public or whats ur sexual fantasies etc.
You are sooo right. We poor desis have internet access. Baqi kahin to janay sey rahay. We should be allowed to get all the information we need from the experts here.
^ bilkul we have ppl from all around the world..from different classes and back grounds.
imagine the wealth of information/experiences still hidden in guppies just waiting to be shared with us.
^^ shouldn't you guys open a new thread about corner room, and avoid posting here . :-) I think Baba G is still around and he will lock this thread as well .