Jahaiz

[LP]

Re: Jahaiz

@Hakuna_Matata

Sure, but inshaALLAH in ramzan

Ramadhan mai kafi time hai. Why not now?

[Hakuna_Matata_1]

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@LP

Ramadhan mai kafi time hai. Why not now?

But time mere pas nahi hai

[Holy_Lota]

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wuts problem with jahaiz when the ladki wala give it to their girl as per their own will? The problem starts when they were obliged to give jahaiz aka demand

[Captain_Lota]

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@Holy_Lota

wuts problem with jahaiz when the ladki wala give it to their girl as per their own will? The problem starts when they were obliged to give jahaiz aka demand

Jahaiz is the birthright of every groom. Think of it as McDonalds Happy Hour.

Sincerely,
Captain Lota

[Holy_Lota]

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^^ Holy cant disagree with my other brother in need. Hi-5 brother, i mean Tonty-5

[Captain_Lota]

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@Holy_Lota

^^ Holy cant disagree with my other brother in need. Hi-5 brother, i mean Tonty-5

Tonty-5 indeed brother Holy Lota.

Are Holy Lotas fashioned from steel or plastic or ceramic?

Sincerely,
Captain Lota

[LP]

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@Holy_Lota

wuts problem with jahaiz when the ladki wala give it to their girl as per their own will? The problem starts when they were obliged to give jahaiz aka demand

Because they become obliged to give due to the culture. They feel they aren’t good parents if they don’t give their daughter so n so. They even take loans to give jahaiz.

[Hakuna_Matata_1]

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Aur phir yoon hua ke shadi apne ehtetaam ko pohanch gai beghair kisi mushkil aur rukawaT ke alhamdulillah…

[LP]

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@Hakuna_Matata

Aur phir yoon hua ke shadi apne ehtetaam ko pohanch gai beghair kisi mushkil aur rukawaT ke alhamdulillah…

[Le_Pakistan]

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@LP

Because they become obliged to give due to the culture. They feel they aren’t good parents if they don’t give their daughter so n so. They even take loans to give jahaiz.

You don’t become obligued to do that, unless you allow it to happen. Everything is within your control.

[Bobby1]

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@Le_Pakistan

You don’t become obligued to do that, unless you allow it to happen. Everything is within your control.

When you live in a society and do not follow social norms there can be very severe consequences, I am sure you are aware of that.

[Le_Pakistan]

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@Bobby1

When you live in a society and do not follow social norms there can be very severe consequences, I am sure you are aware of that.

Plenty of people that I know who didn’t give their daughters jahaiz. No severe consequences.
The worse that will happen is that the rishta will end. Fine, who wants to marry their daughter to greedy people.

I am aware in some cases it is easy to speak and things can become ugly, things aren’t always that black and white. But in general, it is all up to you how you react to something. Things aren’t always as difficult as we make them.

[Southie]

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Is Matata getting married? Will Chi. Matata henceforth be known as Sri Matata?

Congratulations!

[Southie]

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This issue is not as simple as it seems on the surface. If you are lower middle class (or even middle class), jahaiz is a burden for the girls family. But for those who are rich, jahaiz ensures the girl gets her fair share of her family wealth.

[Bobby1]

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@Le_Pakistan

Plenty of people that I know who didn’t give their daughters jahaiz. No severe consequences.
The worse that will happen is that the rishta will end. Fine, who wants to marry their daughter to greedy people.

I am aware in some cases it is easy to speak and things can become ugly, things aren’t always that black and white. But in general, it is all up to you how you react to something. Things aren’t always as difficult as we make them.

I am married to the most beautiful, educated classy lady who was physically assaulted and threatened because her widowed mother was not able to fulfill the demands for more money. Her brother and bhabi had usurped all the wealth and left them with nothing. One offs don’t matter in a vast majority of cases the dowry matters.

[Hakuna_Matata_1]

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@LP

thank you… they are now a happy couple alhamdulillah

@Bobby1

When you live in a society and do not follow social norms there can be very severe consequences, I am sure you are aware of that.

and those severe consequences are saas and nandon ke sari umar ke taanay…

@Le_Pakistan

Plenty of people that I know who didn’t give their daughters jahaiz. No severe consequences.
The worse that will happen is that the rishta will end. Fine, who wants to marry their daughter to greedy people.

I am aware in some cases it is easy to speak and things can become ugly, things aren’t always that black and white. But in general, it is all up to you how you react to something. Things aren’t always as difficult as we make them.

you’re at some extent right, but mostly people in Pakistan dont let it go easily, bechari larki ko taanay maar maar ker hi halaq ker dein ye log…

@Southie

Is Matata getting married? Will Chi. Matata henceforth be known as Sri Matata?

Congratulations!

lolzzz bachay ki jaan leingay kya ??

thanks on the behalf of my friend, hehe

@Southie

This issue is not as simple as it seems on the surface. If you are lower middle class (or even middle class), jahaiz is a burden for the girls family. But for those who are rich, jahaiz ensures the girl gets her fair share of her family wealth.

that’s the right sketch :k:

[Anjul]

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meanwhile at Hakuna’s sasural

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wKhUPSeM3Zo

[Holy_Lota]

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@LP

Because they become obliged to give due to the culture. They feel they aren’t good parents if they don’t give their daughter so n so. They even take loans to give jahaiz.

Par choti baji thats why we yell at the emotions saying, “Oye control kar control”…

Now if they say, “kya karen control nai hota”, whose fault is this?

You cant have everything at yr hand, can you?
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[LP]

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@Hakuna_Matata

Sure, but inshaALLAH in ramzan

^ Reminder

[Hakuna_Matata_1]

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@LP

^ Reminder

sure, thanks for reminding, I’ll try to share it today inshaALLAH :k: