I've had it!! Enough is enough

[Paheli00]

Re: I’ve had it!! Enough is enough

@eastern11

Don’t expect sympathy from everyone here. Mostly, its you are wrong and in Islam parents and husband are important. And he’s like your father too, never mind Islam says that you are entitled to privacy and are not even required to cook for him. God forbid if your parents came to live with you and your husband was rude to them, you would not be allowed to complain, because in our society if a husband is allowing that you should be thankful.

This has nothing to do with who’s right or what Islam says. This is about human nature & what REALISTIC options OP has in order to keep herself sane, and not cause further tension in her marriage. This is about OP learning to pick and choose her battles and using her BRAIN to control the situation…….instead of allowing her emotions to control her.

Whining/complaining about how inconsiderate/unfair our elders are doesn’t help OPs situation. She can’t control how her FIL behaves/thinks, and we all know her husband is not going to try to change his father’s behavior….especially since the FIL is only visiting. The only thing OP has control over is her own behavior and her own thoughts.