It's "your day"!

[kakee]

Re: It’s “your day”!

@Deeba1234

Kakee, don’t take it personally..

In traditional desi culture the bride got virtually no say in anything.. from choice of groom to choice of dress.. Just the fact she was getting a husband was meant to be ‘enough’.. Am sure no-one on here thinks along those extremes but that’s what a lot of our mums and grandmothers went thru so a bride having a real say in her wedding prep and being assertive can sometimes be seen as ‘rude’ or ‘arrogant’.. Even if it might be something as simple as just choosing her own dress :hinna:

hm yah
I’m sorry for taking it personally

I think I’ll be fine. I’m quite charming and I can always use the “foreigner” card if I really wanted something. although I can’t think of anything that I really want..