Yes Rena, I completely agree with you that the amount of tolerance (as it should be) is much more higher in marriages (arranged or love) as compared to a relationship. I do agree that dating before hand might give rise to some issues as people expect those lovey dovey times to go on even after the marriage but isn’t that the same thing as the first few days of the marriage. I remember reading a post here a couple of weeks ago where someone was complaining how their husband’s behavior has changed from the initial days. I think it comes to an individual person because the princess and i’m a man syndrome runs pretty deep these days and everyone wants things their way.
I agree that getting to know someone and talking to them is different. I also agree that relationship is alot of effort and sometimes it is a bit pre mature and can mean nothing towards the end. But then again alot of people don’t just jump into a relationship where they don’t see a future and for those who do i think thats a crappy thing to do and I’m completely against that myself 