hwo can you be 100% sure about some person that she is the one you are gona marry. there are thousands of things that you will realize about her after your first date and may or may not be those can impress you.
There are possibilities and lets say if the possibility is more on -ve side then you at least dated someone and didn’t marry?
I don’t get when people say that they are only date when they are about to marry that person .. .. the mai purpose of date is to see if you 2 can get along before the marriage and instead of living in a hell you decide whether to take the relation to the next step or not.