Reha
March 14, 2010, 6:17pm
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See Reha this is where you and me disagree. I know that things will change after marriage and there is nothing that i can do about it. Its the same thing as reading a book and then watching a movie based on the book, u kno the movie is not gonna be the same as the book but you still have a better understanding of how the movie would be like. I agree and I totally understand that you have to make adjustments and living with a person is completely different than marrying them but why not go in with someone who you have an idea about that ok this wat he/she is like and this is wat they like/dislike and having a ball park figure rather than complete stranger where you don’t know anything. Someone people think its the charm in a marriage but thats just my own two cents.
TBH there is drama in both marriage and dating. You don’t abandon the marriage cuz of the drama (atleast most of the desi people) and most people don’t abandon the relationship either cuz of drama unless its something really big. I think people should just keep their mind open about both the options especially when judging people.
I understand what you’re saying and it makes sense.
But if you’re really honest with yourself…how many dating couples actually observe this theory in real life? Why is the divorce rate so high among us…the generation that dates?