Its Complicated...

[diwana]

@libranrulz

Reha tbh with you most brown couples i know who are going out are not having sex. So the point of STD and unplanned pregnancies does not even come into play and if one of the two has been around stds can happen in arranged marriages as well so thats another thing. As far as solid advice is concerned most people don’t share their married life problems with their parents either until or unless s**t hits the fan and u don’t kno wat to do and when that happens in dating people go to their parents too. **When I was dating someone my parents knew from week 2 that i was going out with someone and i was dead serious about them. **As far as where the relationship is going i think you need to discuss that in both marriage and dating to see where u both stand and wat are your goals in life cuz communication is the key to any relationship and if we’re judging how bad relationships are by how many threads we have on life1 then i think arrange marriages and evil in laws have the most threads so yea …

@libranrulz

I agree with khumar about most of the things that she has said. You don’t have to date someone just for the heck of it. **For me personally I would not date anyone until i’m a 100% sure that this can lead up to something i.e. marriage. **The point being I want to get to know a person a lil bit better so there are no surprises in marriage and she gets to know me too so shez not shocked afterwards.

I am in no way against arrange marriages. I think they work really well. If my mom forces me to go for it I will but even then i would like to get to kno the person. the question is if i would prefer it over picking someone for myself. Probably not

Not sure what you meant about 100% sure.

Your first post suggests you dated more than once. Second post suggests you were 100% sure those could lead to marriage.

And what is brown couples?