Reha tbh with you most brown couples i know who are going out are not having sex. So the point of STD and unplanned pregnancies does not even come into play and if one of the two has been around stds can happen in arranged marriages as well so thats another thing. As far as solid advice is concerned most people don’t share their married life problems with their parents either until or unless s**t hits the fan and u don’t kno wat to do and when that happens in dating people go to their parents too. When I was dating someone my parents knew from week 2 that i was going out with someone and i was dead serious about them. As far as where the relationship is going i think you need to discuss that in both marriage and dating to see where u both stand and wat are your goals in life cuz communication is the key to any relationship and if we’re judging how bad relationships are by how many threads we have on life1 then i think arrange marriages and evil in laws have the most threads so yea …