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June 10, 2005, 1:28pm
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Re: it was a wish from your grand-parents…
umer.ashraf:
Well
You have good thinking about your kids and your brother at the time. Now imagine this. After 20-30 years of life, having spent most of your savings on your kids and have yet to marry them all. Your brother might be facing the same difficulties at that time. Every one of us know well how difficult it is these days to find good partner, after 20-30 years life will be more busier and difficult (as it is becoming each and every day). At that time you maight have thinking but since you have seen enough of life and people, you might not behave as you think. I have personally seen such cases, where parents have always let their kids know that you are free in selecting your partner, but when time comes, the very same parents let their kids know of their problems and request them to do accordingly.
Umer, it all sounds very nice and ideal, but if one of the parties isnt interested what is the likelihood of this marriage being successful. O mere maa piyo..eh mee naal ki kita tusi, kithay phass gaie main
