Re: it scares the crappers out of me
i used to be scared of marriage too and used to think how on earth can u spend your life with one person, what if he's not the one, what if i dont really love him, what if we hate each other once we are married... but u know what ... everything does work out... if only u let it :)
Sadzy...
You are a docile, demure and a very humble person...You are the kind of person that men search and want in their wives...(At least from your posts I get that impression)
Since it's your nature to be accomodating and forgiving, it's easy for you to make things work your way...Even if things don't go your way you can make them go your way...
Catty is talking about another problem...What if a girl is either incapable of becoming accomodating or can't stand to be too flexible...
My view is, for the girl it all works out...My sister is and was a headstrong person...But after marriage, she is now MashAllah a mama of 3 girls and runs the house as her husband likes...