Issue with fiance..

Re: Issue with fiance..

We want men who will treat us well...and somehow we end up allowing men to treat us like this.

Relationships are TWO way streets...never one way. The one way streets are always unhappy marriages with unhappy people stuck in them.

If you say something to him, he should LISTEN and the same goes for you. He should NOT automatically take the offensive because he believes in his mind that he is God and can do no wrong. It doesnt work that way in real life. He cannot YELL at you, he cannot RULE over you, etc because a REAL man doesnt need to bellow and thump his chest in order to reinforce his masculinity. He doesnt have the right to push you around...you're allowing him to do it...it is your fault.

It could be your approach, your attitude, your demeanor when you're speaking to him, your views that clash with his, etc. OR it could be your blind love that is making you stick with a guy that sounds like he doesnt deserve you.