i had an aga khani friend. every other week they have dandia party/dance party at jamat khana.hmm
i have mentioned it in the first or second page of this thread and i'm mentioning it again that dandia IS NOT a religious practice and DOES NOT take place inside a jamat khana.. it takes place in an open space outside the jamat khana.. dandias are a traition of the gujarati jamat and are usually held at happy ocassions such as birthday of the imam..
oh bhai/bhen! who cares??! we don't care what your friend does. just invite them to Islam.
sure go ahead, do whatever you feel is right... atleast we won't kill a person (like you ppl do) who preaches to us... that's the difference.. and it's obvious which is more islamic..;)