Islamic dating ? Is there such thing ?

I opened a thread ealier on where I tried to figure out the reasons why a Muslim man cannot master the art of hitting on girls.
So many posters said that Islam allows boys and girls , men and women to check each other out for the purposes of getting married.
Now the question is:
Is there concept of dating in Islam ?
If yes then what are the ettiquettes or boundries of Islamic dating ?

Re: Islamic dating ? Is there such thing ?

mutaa?

Re: Islamic dating ? Is there such thing ?

It's actually very similar to old english courting rituals. That a family go to the house of the girl. The boy gets to ask questions to the girl in the presence of his and her parents or representatives and she gets to ask hers too, but if she is shy she can get someone else to ask them.

No complete private time should be allowed.

They may write each other too, no lowly talk and bobs your uncle.

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...and where does muttah come into play here then.
i mean get to the good part already mon

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okay i know boys and girls from all kind of families see each other in pakistan openly and call it dating ............... i had friends who did that whether or no they got married to each other later, and of coarse many restrictions r applied is that what u wanna know ?

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usually we do really well with women.
Reason:: because we have respect of women built into us.
Non Muslim women admire that a lot.

yeah the ideal of every western woman is a man who is tall dark and handsome

err yeah..and muslim :halo:

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islamic dating = you start the dating with bismillah...rest Allah will take care of.

no…ideal of every western woman is bush-like…short…white and stupid.

err yeah..and trigger-happy-terrorist. :chai:

bhai jitna marzi mazaq ura lo.
Once you pass that stage of looks etc, non-muslim women tend to stick around.

so muslim, you mean then right?
we agree

yaaay.

so how did things work out with bismillah khan?

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Patan nahi what you guys are talking about here.

Dating in Islam?
Who cares if it is allowed or not? You gotta do what you gotta do.
Then do taubah. Big time.
:chai:

you see bollywood movies a lot

sure…though i clearly said bush-like…that is stupid-president-bush elected twice by the stupid american ppl…i hope u didn’t vote for him. :chai:

so when are you moving to US?
or canada is good enough for you.
PS: dont they have canadan troops in other countries.
:chai:

khan must be on ur mind kakay...i said bismillah...the thing u read b4 starting / doing something...a muslim thingie...but then you won't know...

where does it mentioned its khan

even if i move to US…i won’t be a US citizen nor i’ll have the right to vote. :chai:

canadian troops are in afghanistan only…other countries they are as peace-keepers. when was the last time you saw american troops serving as peace-keepers? the only thing they are capable of doing is breaking human bones into pieces…raping 15 years old girls n then burning them alive…not to mention killing their whole bodies to show their strength and moral values.

so you mean a muslim thingie like "islamic dating = you start the dating with bismillah...rest Allah will take care of"

ohhhh...yeah, that sort of muslim thingie...I would not know. :)