Final word is, if your married have it good and plenty to the point of satisfaction. I think all men and women will agree with me on this one. No MARRIED COUPLE wants to be sexually deprived. Cuz think about it logically if sex were only for procreation then why all the sensation and emotion. It would then just be two people "knocking boots" just to bring another kid into this world. These mulla's, let them talk. I could say a lot about these so called mulla's but let them be judged by the Almighty. There are a lot of deviants in this world, check your sources, think with your own mind and do according to what Allah and his messenger have said. Bottom line is that you and your wife/husband are active partners in not only emotionally but physically too.
Jitna Diya Sarkar Nay Mujko, Itni Meri Auqat Nahi, Yeh Saab Tumhara Karam Hai Aqa, Mujh Mein Aisi Koi Baat Nahin.
I dont know much about this issue, but what I know and have heard is that a married man can approach his wife when or how he likes, but Anal sex is completely not allowed. Also there is no sin in having excessive sex with you partner, but it is advised not to develop a habbit of getting involved in sexual activities all the time. May be it is to keep the respect for each other, and not to act intimated in front of others just not of habbit.
Again, I dont know much about it, so please ask a good scholar and discuss with him personally.
K-2 is right about that a couple can approach each other in any way they want. Read Surah Baqarah for explanation. Allah has said it over there.
And Anal sex is prohibited. It is Haram. One of the biggest sins. ( Kabai`r)
I wonder why you guyz said we shouldn’t do exessive of these good stufF? A husband and a wife being together and loving each other is a good deed and they are rewarded for it. (I’ll paste the hadeeth too Inshallah) because they are staying away from illegally doing it.!!
I personally would never let my wife go away from me for a moment… Love 4 ever
I retract my original statement made here. Whilst I did read an article where scholar said sex should be enjoyed in moderation, I recently remember a hadith from Imam An-Nawawi's 40 Hadiths.
In part of a Hadith narrated by Abu Dharr al-Ghifari (may Allah be pleased with him) the Prophet (peace be upon him) was asked "O Messenger of Allah, when one of us fulfils his sexual desire will he have some reward for that?" The reply was "Do you [not] think that were he to act upon it unlawfully he would be sinning? Likewise, if he has acted upon it lawfully he will have a reward."
In the same hadith, the act of lawful sex was described as being sadaqah
As I said, keep it to the extent of GOOD and plentiful as much as BOTH of you want to have it.
As far the the group sex thing goes, its out of the question when it comes to logic. Your not thinking with your brain when you asked that question. Each woman should be treated equally, if your married to more than one woman then give each and every one of them ample amount of EVERYTHING.
Hmmm...notice that no female dares to reply here. I wonder why? (Well, I kinda gather cuz of sharam and haya that they feel)
Jitna Diya Sarkar Nay Mujko, Itni Meri Auqat Nahi, Yeh Saab Tumhara Karam Hai Aqa, Mujh Mein Aisi Koi Baat Nahin.
I agree with everyword Coconut says. According to my limited knowledge of Islam, Coconut's replies are most reasonable. And the group thing, brother that is a road to hell, without even paying a toll. And SalmanKhana, come on man, don't put your personal feelings here, state the facts.
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