How do you know this person has a hairless body? That made me laugh. :D
Anyway, just talk to her. Be friends first, who knows you may not like her after getting to know her, or vice versa. Khair, if you are already engaged, tread carefully.
CCB.. i'm in the same boat you are, i've seen this girl at my workplace that i want to ask out for dinner/coffee, but i've only seen her once whilst on lunch break... i don't know her name or such as which dept she works in, but as far as i'm aware she does not work on the same floor where i do.
So it's like finding a needle in a haystack trying to find this one person amongst 5,000 employees, i've described her to some work collegues to help me out, but no luck as yet and 2 weeks have passed.
As for your situation be assertive, feel confident and simply ask her out, if there's a feeling of rejection/doubt and you dont go ahead you'll probably miss your slot and thing back and wonder "if only".... i'm starting to sound like a shrink. LOL
Look man...i can understand all this...... but you dont always get what you love most in your life ....... we feel as if we gonna die without that person......i felt same for someone special in my life.... pure feelings...... no evil thoughts ever came to ma mind.......i still love him.....and he is still crazy about me......but zaroori nahi ke jjisay pyar karo wo mil bhi jay.......hai na brother.....dont worry.....with the passage of time ...you ll feel better.......you dont have to make your life a living hazard.........maybe tumhain wo mil jay tou wo itni best na ho jitna you think...........beauty is in the eyes beholder......
I figured it was a guy straight away, I think the: ‘The problem is I don’t think I could ever have this person for a reason which is best kept secret from you lot’ is a bit of a giveaway!
Aww good luck CCB, just break it to your fiance gently