I truly believe every relationship is different. My husband has changed for better. He was always a sweet person. Even when we first started talking, in the process of getting to know each other. We've been married for a yr now MA, he has changed himself so much for me, its amazing. I do think our priorities change somewhat after we get married and have kids. We have more responsibilites but despite my husband's super busy schedule, he always always have time for me. Every little thing from requesting a day off from work to talking to his siblings, he tells me all. If he has lets say 1000 dollars to spend, he would spend it all on me. Before he was always .. oh i don't believe in spending too much. Now he gets me the most faltu stuff ever. I really don't know why some men are different. Mine was an arranged marriage where I met him only once before getting married.